Frequently asked questions

Not sure how to say it right? Quick answers about using Sayit for hard conversations.

What is Sayit?
Sayit helps you prepare short messages for conversations that feel difficult — for example setting a boundary, ending something, making an ask, or replying when you’re hurt. You describe the situation and choose tones; you get a few drafts to edit and send in your own words.
How do I say this right?
Describe the situation in your own words — even a messy paragraph is fine. Sayit gives you three draft messages in the tone you pick, each from a different angle. Compare them, edit the one that sounds most like you, and send it when you’re ready.
How do I say this better?
Paste or describe what you’re trying to say. Sayit will draft clearer, more thoughtful versions of your message. You can also use the shorter/longer buttons to adjust the length after generating.
Are these messages sent for me?
No. Sayit suggests text you can copy and use. You decide what to send, when, and to whom.
How do tones work?
You pick the overall tone you want (for example direct, gentle, or firm). Drafts aim to match that direction so you can compare angles and choose what fits.
Is my conversation private?
Treat anything you type as sensitive. Use the product in line with our terms and your own comfort level. For account-specific or legal questions, contact us via the Contact page.
How many messages can I send per day?
Free users get 3 messages per day. Paid plans offer more: the Day pass gives you 15/day, Weekly gives 25/day, and Monthly gives 50/day. Quotas reset at midnight UTC.
Can Sayit replace a therapist or mediator?
No. Sayit is a writing tool, not professional advice. For abuse, safety, or serious conflict, reach out to appropriate professionals or services in your area.

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